my boyfriend is trying to kill me, please help!?
My boyfriend and I fight a lot. he got a job a few months ago, and since I've hardly seen at all. maybe 3 or 4 times. hes really into their video games and sometimes I feel like I did importe.il is 16. We have been together for two years. during the Christmas holidays we have barely spoken, because I want to call very often and I think I bored. I really got hooked. Monday we went back to school, he was the sweetest guy ever. called when he said, and are very good. id and let down the phone when he wanted to play their video games. (This was from Monday to Thursday) the letter five days ago! Friday was a bit rocky, because he had work at 5 and I wanted to play vid before that date, but I wanted to talk (and more about my job I had at the same time, but spoke of 4-430 for the reproduction of their games) is very rare that something is happening there? but he did not want to Friday and I said no I mean, is not having the phone is off. irriated be bored and I kept calling and calling until it resumes. (He hangs up before because I wouldnt let him go lol) weekenes not talk at all and its now Wednesday and still havent talked to him. We texted a few times and he says he's talking to me embarrassing because calls and instant messaging at school? ive also sent word that im dating someone else (not true), but during the Christmas holidays I did and asked how was my new boyfriend and told him why do you mind, "he said simply savoir.puis the Monday (last week when it began to be sweet) asked me if I had a really new, and I told him how I can when t love a lot, and I said why do you say that, and I told him he was sorry and has forgiven me. then I understood perfectly. (If you Im just the happiest person, but I think about how I never see it because of work or their games. And that is what our leadership in the fight. ( You can not come here, I can not go home) parents say I'm "too young". What should I do? TO PLEASE say break, because I used to. Honestly, I love him. I mean, really do something for him, absolutely nothing.'d die for him. it means a lot to me. vraiment.Aidez makes me so PLEASE ici.Répondre to these issues is really a reason for not having called five days, and only if I sent a message text? (Again, I should mention that I do not have new text hm said lol I have a new BF and I also asked the school! fuck him because he wouldnt text back:)) if I am fired by a time, so I ended up thinking "I wonder what is going on with her as she does not do it all the time?" (When I called once and not seen, I tend to remember several times and again. during the holiday Christmas remained until four and I'm calling all the time, I knew what was happening, and he collected when he awoke and said: "I have 98 missed calls from you, should not be." Am I the problem? right? I am the cause of all this? PLEASE HELP! and Monday to Thursday, he always said he was not very ho me and everything and Sat, which only worked until 5 and if he could, he. . and of course I have not had a call or anything, it has not yet responded. *******! VIDEO GAMES
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Break up with him.
since this is the third time I’ve seen this question, I’d say it’s because you’re annoying.
video games rock
honestly.
that wass to much to read, so i really didnt read it all.
buuut, frrom the little things i did read.
you need to get rid of his ass, and leave. no one should go through that. live your life, aand find a guy that will make you happpyy.(:
He’s using you babe sorry to tell you… Which is more important video games or you??
I think you should just drop it and leave it alone. He obviously wants to do his own thing and you sound a bit controlling – I think it’s best if you realize that you aren’t right for each other and move on.
It’s hard to change someone, and you’re probably not going to do so by calling and calling and calling just to talk to him when he doesn’t want to. You just have to hope they’ll change. You’re young and you should enjoy dating more than just one person who isn’t that into you anyway.
I hate to break it to you, but you’re the problem. You’re too clingy and it’s no surprise he’s getting annoying. DON’T EVER CALL HIM OVER AND OVER AGAIN. NO ONE will like that. Also, don’t tell him you have a new bf, that’s so immature.
Break up with him. You’re not mature enough for a relationship. His video games are not the problem here.
uhhh, dump him.
he’s not worth your time.
You’re not important enough for him. You deserve better, seriously. Relationships are not suppose to make you feel this bad.
Why would you text him , that you have a new bf?
Thats pretty dumb, he’s obviously busy with his life, and he can’t talk to you ALL the time, or at what ever time suits you.
Why don’t you try listening to him for once instead of trying to piss him off?
Grow up.
Your being clingy.
Yes you are the problem in all this.
1. You’re lying about him by saying he’s trying to kill you, you sound like a psychopath.
2. 98 missed calls, if he doesn’t want to talk, leave him alone. No means no.
you can either let him kill you or call the police
wow, sorry to break the news but it seems likes hes more into video games then hes into you. if work and silly games are more important to him than u r then hes not the right one. im not saying to dump him but seroiusly think about it and make the right choice. it might be hard but its right.
I’ve been married for nearly five years to a man that still loves his video games. There’s nothing wrong with that when the boy/man does his part. You, however, need to chill out. You seem a little clingy, needy and borderline psychotic. He’s probably freaked out that you’re WAY too into him…he’s still a kid, so let him have fun and play his games. And, in the process, why don’t you find a hobby….
You are the problem. Very much so. Why do you need to call him that much? Especially when its pretty well obvious he DOESNT WANT TO TALK TO YOU. Did you hear that? Let me try again. HE DOESNT….WANT…TO…TALK…TO….YOU!
Im surprised he hasnt broke up with you already. Annoying clingy girls are about the worst things to deal with ever, and I can see that you are one of them.
My advice: Stop Calling Him. Just stop. You dont have to break up with him, but let him be the one to call you instead. Be a big girl.
As a video game addict of the past…who suffered two d’s and an f after years of a’s and b’s, I would say that the video games are killing his brain.
Make him break up with the video games. There is NO POSSIBLE way for you to “love him” especially with a nonstop frantic game of phone tag.
Honestly, I’d say you should break up with him. He isnt worth your time. But since you refuse to realise that this guy is a dick, i think you should just call him 500 more times and get an answer from him.
dude.. yhu need to stop
;;
or yhull lose him;; no one
likes a clingy person &&
yhu already kinduh sound
psycho.. sorry ^_^
yhu need to give him hizs
space! guyzs need space
&& yhu need to have your
own life besides just
making it about him.
you’ll both be happier
teenage boys need space. if you continue to call him all the time and lie about having someone new, he will end up dumping you. i made the same mistake once. just give him space, only call him once a day otherwise let him call you. and if you dont hear from him for a month move on.
he sounds a bit games obsessed, which is a bit silly really.
and maybe you should cool it a bit?
you are both a bit young to be serious atm, go out, have fun etc etc!
you need to leave him alone. you seem super needy and that gets old fast, and while it’s not all your fault, that doesn’t make it any easier to handle or deal with. maybe you should talk to a counselor and take more time for yourself to figure out who you are.
you don’t sound like a good match.. i stopped reading after a bit. but you sound like you’re trying to control him and he doesn’t sound like he likes you enough. just breakup and go your separate ways.
Don’t try to piss him off. Play video games with him.
how is he killing you? u waste my time
girl you need to get a life more than buggin like that yo…you are what they call a BUGABOO!! chill the f u ck down and let him live his life u cant force someone to love you or to want to be around you!! usually the more you push someone to do something the less likely they are to do it..so back off and if he really loves you or wants it to work then he’ll come back to you..if he doesnt come back thats your sign that you have ruined it by being selfish and crazy stalker a lil bit foreal..i will advise you that the next bf u get to lay off a lil or you wont have him for long either…and yes i think you need to back off big time even call it quits..and i know u say i wont but if you dont he will ..and you’ll look like a damn fool standing there waiting for him when he’s already moved on…
May be stop calling him at all then he’ll call you and you can tell him that he was ignoring you so you stopped trying and he’ll be the one to say sorry end of problem?
ok hear is the problem.
it sounds like you will do anything for this dick head,,but he wont re-pay the favor. if your willing to drop everything for him and hes not for you thats wrong. i mean the only thing he has to do is drop the video games like one day and talk to his baby girl.
but then again u guys are young,,or hes just an immature little b**** and wont get of the nerd games for you. i can understand if hes working alot bc of the economic situation today but if he reaalyy likes he will fing as much time as he can to talk to you.
his video games must be his high after work to relieve stress,,but try and talk to him,,,,that stress might be sumthing more then work,or more then you. he could be having family probelms er sumthin but try and talk to him about his life right now
Unfortunately you are indeed the problem. Everyone, including you, have a right to enjoy their own life and interests. How people choose to balance their interests with their romantic life is their own business and choice.
You are a bit much. I’m surprised he just hasn’t dumped you from all the pressure you’re applying.
Calm yourself and let him enjoy his interests and he might enjoy you more.
do you know how video game is addicting its more addicting than marijuana and cocaine and he is a hardcore gamer those kind of people never get along trust me i lost a lot of people by doing this myself
maybe u could call a little less. u want his attention too but he is 16 and probably doesnt want to be in a serious relationship and definalty doesnt know how to be..ur trying to get to much out of him. he may like u but he likes his video games too and thats normal for a guy his age. so its not u. talk to him about it and if he doesnt stop then he isnt ready and u should move on.
well it was a little long 2 read but i did read it all and by the sounds of it ur goin 2 far i think u should lay off his back 4 a lil while cause every1 gets frustrated when somethin keeps on annoyin them on and on so yeah just wait and hopefully he’ll call u when he’s ready again and think about it wouldn’t u b annoyed if he did that???
Okay, you need to slow down, yuo sound way to young to be in that heavy a relationship! And now to answer your questions;
You are both kinda in the wrong, 5 days is a long time when it takes a minute to send a text. But you have to understand that he works and he has his own hobbies, you have to get used to it. You sound really quite obsessive (98 missed calls is stalker scary!) Perhaps he’s just changing and growing up? Getting a job does that to people.
Stop planning ways to get him to do what you want, try chilling out, if you call him, do it only once even if he doesnt pick up! If he wants to talk to you, he will call back. And dont make such a big deal out of a few days with no contact, absence makes the heart grow fonder. If it turns into weeks then dump him! If you can’t handle the type of person he is, then you are so in the wrong relationship. Or try talking to him and explaining your feelings then you can BOTH decide where to go from there.
Your only young, its not a big deal, grow up and chill out or move on.
98 calls -you tell him you have another bf-wtf
YOUR THE PROBLEM
If your boyfriend is trying to kill you, go to your local Women’s shelter. You will be safe there and get support and counseling.
OK first off, the title of your post is misleading. Unnecessary.
Secondly, you are obsessive. If you call him once and he doesn’t pick up then don’t call again at least for 30 mins. Do NOT call more then twice. 98 missed calls is WAY to creepy.
Third, he IS 16 so video games is his thing. You should find yourself another boyfriend who has more time for you.
how old are you?
how old is he?
You freak out too much.
&& he’s in love with video games.
Not you.
I know I’m going to get crappy ratings for saying this, but you’re obsessive and he needs to grow up. You love him, but why can’t you see that he’s putting video games before you? You say f**k video games, but he’s CHOOSING to play them.
You also have trust issues and an obsession with him, which isn’t healthy. If you really loved him as you say you do, you’d trust him when “you don’t know what’s going on.” You’re both in your teens, and your parents are right…if you’re too immature to put trust in the relationship, you’re too young to BE in a relationship. It also shows your immaturity that you had to put some nonsense about sex in the question box to get more responses.
Frankly, it doesn’t matter how “sweet the boy is.” He has his priorities and he likes sleeping late and playing video games. It’s a compatibility issue, and it doesn’t matter how much you love somebody if there are serious communication problems.
It seems like you might love him, but he might not feel the same way, especially if he promises to see you and then gets sidetracked with non-vital things.
I know you don’t want to hear “dump him” but the way it’s going, it seems inevitable and you’re both at fault. If you stay with him, you’ll be miserable because you’re on his list of priorities behind work and video games. And you’re too damn obsessive to learn to compromise.