How do I kick my husband out?
I have it. Can not physically cheating, I have no proof, but was emotionally cheating for some time. I asked several times for not registering on dating sites, not the text of other women, not to be so cute, spend more time at home. He says he will stop, then did not even try to hide it. He thinks I should trust him. He thinks he is allowed to have "friends" of sex opposé.Parce can not meet these friends "of it, cut all ties of friendship with the opposite sex as a measure of faith that he will do the same. But , acts as the rules do not apply to lui.J have asked the board and agree that I should go (not him). I'm tired. After 16 years, I can not cope with more of it. We two young children, you can not give another idolâtre.Il made three times more than me, so I know it will be a battle, because frankly I do not solid evidence (other than dating sites) and he can turn around the words of someone on their own avantage.J have tried to talk to friends and family, and he has it all thinking I'm psychotic and unstable but I'm not. I'm just tired. Everyone knows that he thinks is so wonderful, because it does not do anything to anyone, except in the important moments, his family.'s a good guy, but when at home, violence is a dictator psychologique.Comment do I get this piece of shit out of our house? "Happy-2, things were fine for about 14 years, then began to act differently. This may be a midlife crisis, but things went very well during the first 14 years. It has always been selfish But it is only during the last two years has expanded its deception.
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If you want to end your marriage then you need to contact an attorney and protect your interest as well as the children’s. If he wants to behave like a single man then he should be single.
id go stay with a friend or family member that way you’d be out of his life for a while, even if its for a week.. that way he can see that he misses you
Why can’t you leave. Why should he be the one to leave. It’s his house too. If he is such a loser, then just leave. Take care of yourself
Well you should be careful when you kick him out. Just ask him to leave explain how unhappy you are. Use short and to the point sentences. So he cant twist it around. Send him off with the damn computer. That’s all he really needs! He has lost you and doesnt even know it!
If you own your own home than you need to file for divorce. You need a good lawyer. The order of divorce should also state that he has to leave until the matter of the home is resolved. And considering that you have children the courts will not want the children out of the home. You will have more power by filing first. But get a good lawyer. You can also make him pay for it. You cannot leave because it would be abandonement and he would have more power.
your first mistake was cutting off your own friends. i had problems like this when i first got married. my husband did alot of drugs and his head was messed up for awhile, very controlling and jealous. i did what you did and stopped talking to my guy friends, but he kept up with all his ladyfriends. this went on for about a year and we fought constantly. then he just snapped out of it and i haven’t seen anything like it since. that was a different situation tho.
i would let him know that counselling is the last hurrah. if he doesn’t agree, leave. he doesn’t want to help himself or the marriage, there’s nothing you can do.
well you can pack his stuff, leave it on the fonrt step of the house, (or wherever you want) and then have a locksmith come over and change all the locks to the house, change the alarm code. not only will he be force to leave at that point, but he can’t get in. (you need to think though, it could backfire and the police could show up, just a thought) i think i would be fed up too. if you screw me once, shame on you, you screw me twice shame on me. i would also call an attorney and start the divorce process. Good Luck!
How bizarre! A man behaves consistently for 16 years, and now, suddenly, you want to kick him out? What has changed?
I think that the person you need to change is you. Stop obsessing about what he’s doing, and get a life. If you don’t work, get a job. You say you have no male friends, so get some. Foster a social life outside your house, so that you don’t put all your emotional eggs into your husband’s basket. Do volunteer work, join a club, take up physical fitness, or enroll in an adult education class at a local college. In short, start living your life.
if you guys have assets together then going through an attorney will be your best bet. However, if you dont have assets together and you just want him out, you might consider nagging or doing those things you know he hate most if you do them. You have been with him for 16yrs now, am sure you him well enough to know what he cant stand if he knew that you did it. good luck.
You have two good reasons for file divorce: he’s emotionally abusive and he’s signing up for dating services. You have two choices:
1–Get legal advise from a lawyer A.S.A.P. An expert will guide you through.
2–Ask him to leave. If he doesn’t, act like he’s not at home any more. Give him indifference.
I wish you the best!
Maybe he should kick you out.
You cannot legally kick him out of the house, as it is joint marital property and you both have a right to it, especially considering the length of the marriage. I went through a similar thing–and even packed his crap and left in the garage–asked him to leave on several occasions–but he wouldn’t and I was told that there wasn’t anything I could do about it, It wasn’t until things got really bad and he pushed me down that he made to leave the house because it was considered domestic violence. Then we had a no-contact order which made things difficult since we have a son together, but it helped us both move on with our lives and not bicker back and forth.
You definitely need to contact a lawyer, and as for the relationship, it definitely sounds like your fighting a losing battle!!!
Have sex with another man and record it and show it to him, he will understand
Just because he is a emotional dictator, and may be verbally mean, isn’t enough to have him physically removed from the home, as legally you can’t throw your spouse out, this goes both ways, he can’t throw you our, nor can you throw him out. If you are this fed up you can do a few things that may improve your life, the best thing for you to do is to to start to look at all the positive things in your marriage, their must be something good and decent about your husband, after all you did marry him, no one looks at their future husband and says to themselves, now theirs the piece of crap husband I have been looking for all my life, I think I’ll marry him and be miserable for the rest of my life, you had to have seen something good in him, so try to look for the good things again, also it takes two to take a marriage down and destroy it, so to put the whole blame on your husband is not fair nor healthy for you, you must take responsibility for your actions, and accept the fact that you both have your faults and you both are responsible for the break down of this marriage, acceptance is a valuable tool to use for getting past resentments. Now if you just cant stomach trying to salvage your marriage, then I suggest that you figure out ways to get out, first look at your financial aspects, make sure you can afford to move, then start looking at places to live, I know how men are when it comes to their homes, it would take a act of congress to get this guy out of the home, therefore you may have to be the one to move. So here are my two suggestions, A- make the best out of your marriage, with a new attitude, B- Move