How soon should a man expect “home-cooked” meals when dating?
This guy just met last Saturday I took the next day and we had fun. I noticed in our first conversation to this date, he asked if I cooked. What happens to do exceptionally well in a family kitchen. Well, as our date on Sunday --- we devised to block again. And it has essentially the same called and asked me to cook for him. I have no problem with that, but as my own rule --- usually do not start at the home of "dates after the third date, just what I'm sure I'm not trying to fool. But it is a driver truck (trucks for a living units) because he says he will be out for a month, so no "out", but to stay in. I agreed to cook for him as he left Monday morning --- Do you think that something more was expected to cook at home, I am preparing? Kirk --- I cooked penne pasta with creamy grilled crusts parmasan chicken breast. salad and bread to accompany!
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I wouldn’t be happy if someone I JUST started dating went and invited themselves over…wouldn’t settle well with me.
I do agree – usually somewhere around date 3 but only IF you want to invite them.
You might want to just come clean and let him know you aren’t ready for an in-home date yet…
Invite him, but make sure you tell a few family members that he’s coming over. That way if your body goes missing, people could tell the police you were with him.
Maybe, and if he doesn`t come on to you and justs sits and chats, he`s a keeper for sure!
Yes, he will be expecting something more. It is kind of creepy that he insisted on inviting himself over so quickly. I’d come up with an excuse if I were you about why it can’t happen right now.
He will be hoping for more. Maybe have a friend “drop in” for a visit during his visit. “Oh my I didn’t realize you had company but I just wanted to get your opinion on…….” Have them come an hour or so after he is supposed to arrive, by then you will know if you are comfortable with this guy and you can give your friend a signal to either stay or go.
The fact he is being so pushy would be unsettling to me personally.
He may want something more, but bottom line if you normally don’t do this, I wouldn’t now either.
He’s a trucker, and he’s going on the road, so he wants to get laid before he goes on the road.
Gross..
This guy is sellfish and controlling already, he’s just being nice about it for now.
Tell him that you will cook for him, but don’t allow anyone in your home that early. If he’s any sort of a nice guy, he’d respect your feelings. Cook something, and have it outside, like at a park or picnic.
trutfuly, he sounds like a creep.. I’m already getting the heeby jeebies..
I wouldn’t anticipate that sort of thing until we were living together and I was paying the bills.
I’m sure he would like something more. Or maybe he is broke and doesn’t want to spend money on the second date. Either way its not a good sign.
When I was single I always pushed for the second date to be at my or her house cause its much easier to hook up.