boyfriend of two years broke up with me through a text.?

 

So. Im 22 and this is my exboyfriend. . and I met my ex-boyfriend at work. . I was the housewife and was a server. It was great fun and we became good friends. We started having a college class together and began to spend more time together, who come to study, or simply go to lunch. Then he started coming to the movies, and one night she kissed me. and it was. started and it's amazing. we fell in love and did everything together, we spent almost every day together when we were together werent SMS or call each other all day. I was his first real girlfriend, so it was pretty new to everything, but was by far the best friend I ever had. I was very close to his family and especially his sister. It was even closer to my family. . I loved him and later still and spend time with my parents when I was at work. The two left the restaurant and began working in a nursery. We have enjoyed working together, but then I was offered several jobs. He started his own business in detail cars. and started working at a country club, which began to fight more, and began to miss each other a lot with our different schedules. but he always managed to come every evening and overnight. It started with an old friend who was very good. Then he started not wanting to do something. just play video games, and baseball with his friend. so I wanted to go to restaurants and movies and fishing. This has resulted in many battles and always say its not working, but they were always together because they both liked each other, after our 2nd year anniversary. We got into a fight because he said he forgot to come to me after baseball and went home. and later in the night he broke up with me via a text message saying he was not happy over. I could not believe I called him immediately and told him to come here and do my face! and he wouldnt! after I'm gone mad text messaging him. He said that we should be separate and not talk. I tried talking to her sister with her, and everything he says, is to give it time. so I stopped sending text messages. A few days later I wrote a text that says hello and wanted to know how was our dog and what he had done recently. I just reply with your dog is fine. does not answer your questions. He had accompanied me in my work Christmas party with me. But of course that did not work so my best friend told me he was going to come with me. I have posted on myspace who had a date for my works Christmas party. You do not have a myspace, but her sister. So I got a text saying it is the date of their Christmas party. and I told him why. and he said he was asking, and I respond by clicking OK. and then said, then OK. I havent heard from him since. and that was a week ago. have been separated for 3 weeks. and I'm pretty sure I am a failure. and Christmas is coming and I know I will text HES do not know if he answers. I do not know why her sister used to talk to me. she wants too. has not yet arrived and got her things, and has almost everything here. I do not know what to do. I want to return. and need some advice. He also wrote a text telling me he loved me and missed me, but it would not work and he did not know what else to say. I miss him like crazy. . He did anything and everything for me. I think it came down to what he has done so much for our relationship and I was happy, but it was not. and now I had time to step back and think, I realized how much I took for granted our relationship. I know there is another girl. Because he does not drink or smoke. and he hates the bars so it does not work. and he works alone, so I know it would not meet someone at work. and his sister let me know for sure if he saw someone else. She said it was the last thing on his mind. I'm so confused. I just need some good advice! Thanks! Sorry so long!

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1.
On April 21st, 2010 at 7:11 am, The Breeze said:

I don’t have 4 hours to read your question.

Just get over it & move on.

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On April 21st, 2010 at 7:49 am, Greg B said:

He’s just fed up and needs some space. Give it to him, maybe he’ll come back or maybe he won’t. There are always others.

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On April 21st, 2010 at 8:03 am, Lizz K said:

if he texted you he didn’t give a shyt about you. um really we didn’t need a book though your first sentence was good

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On April 21st, 2010 at 8:14 am, crackerz said:

well that’s low as it can go

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On April 21st, 2010 at 8:35 am, A M said:

i didnt read it….waaaay too long, but i can already tell you he was cheating on you or he was already seeing somebody else.

its easier to cut ties when there is someone else to fall back on

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On April 21st, 2010 at 9:23 am, Bob C said:

rape him.

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On April 21st, 2010 at 9:40 am, 2Cute2B4Got said:

Are you sure it was him texting you?

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On April 21st, 2010 at 10:38 am, Allie R said:

Girlfriend, you deserve so much better. My ex boyfriend does the SAME THING. he randomly texts or calls me and tells me how much he loves me. Honestly, all I hear is blah blah blah. They want to know that they still have you, WE DO NOT NEED THAT. Guys are like the subway, if you let one go by, you can just hop on the next. There are SOOO many guys out there. You do not need this guy, he sounds like a prick and I dont even know him. If he texts you on christmas saying merry christmas, do not write back, he doesnt deserve another second of your time, he has already wasted 2 years of it! good luck hunny!!

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On April 21st, 2010 at 11:37 am, ♠Acez♠ said:

I started to read it really but completely stop caring after a paragraph but if i lost interest in your question whose not to say he lost interest in you and oh yeah the power of good old text messages the easiest way to say something difficult

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On April 21st, 2010 at 11:58 am, Tiffany H said:

Sounds like time will answer what ever the problem really is… too much time together too quickly in a relationship doesn’t allow you ot miss one another.. and that is important… give it time, don’t wait on him – or bug him with texts & calls, just move forward in life. If he is meant to be next to you forever, he’ll show back up again! Life’s funny that way

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On April 21st, 2010 at 12:27 pm, asleepypup said:

I didn’t read your story. Way too long. Learn to summarize- its a life skill. If he broke up with you— get over it, its over. If he didn’t— whats the problem???

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On April 21st, 2010 at 1:08 pm, worried said:

it sounds like as you said you were his frist real gf! he would probably still love you but he wants some space. he sis still experienceing life ya know its the way some guys think. they dont wann be with one person forever untill they are older. i say you give it time and work on a good friendship again..for now and who knows! good luk hun and i knowhow you feel!

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On April 21st, 2010 at 1:09 pm, KileeHbmxrider said:

he didn’t tell u in person because he probably was cheating on u, and just doesn’t wanna get slapped if he told u.

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On April 21st, 2010 at 1:53 pm, Manda said:

it all happened too fast if you ask me…to the point that you were insecure and couldn’t stand not seeing each other every day..you both need distance..alot of it all the time other wise it won’t work

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On April 21st, 2010 at 2:21 pm, Midnight Express said:

If you were fighting with him and having relationship problems, it wasn’t meant to be and it’s no surprise it didn’t last. It’s tough because you’ll miss him for awhile, but eventually you’ll get over him. If he didn’t have the guts to break up with you through a text message, it means he’s insecure and has little confidence. He should have handled it better and spoken directly to you face to face. Sometimes, things happen for a reason, but there are other fish out in the sea who won’t let you down the way he did.

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On April 21st, 2010 at 3:03 pm, Judette said:

cant read it all, but if you still like him tell him how you feel….if it was about ur date than just say you guys are just friends( imean with your date). just tell him honestly. if hes not ok with stuff or is being mean or rude, i know you can find someoen else. i dont know whats going on with u two, but just talk IN PERSON

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On April 21st, 2010 at 3:59 pm, Greshnab said:

wow there is a LOT in there…

hmm first.. next time you break up with someone try and not go psycho msging them all the time…

second .. there is a possibility he is doing a real low life cheap guy trick…. some guys break up with their gf right before xmas and valentines day.. that way they safe on gifts…..

if that is it.. after NY.. he will decide to give it another try.. and yall will start all over…

if not.. then i would recommend looking at what else is out there. sounds like yall are having some issues..

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On April 21st, 2010 at 4:28 pm, lissa c said:

your question is too long tyr to cut it short please. because i would like to help you. anyway youre a great lady and just have God in you.

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On April 21st, 2010 at 4:56 pm, *Jessy* said:

Sorry, it’s late here can’t read your whole post, but if you’ve been going out for two years and he broke it off with a text message and you’re in your 20′s, no large amount of explanation is necessary for me to tell you to move on! Men don’t break up with women over a text message! He’s not 12. (Or at least I hope not, sorry I didn’t read the whole thing) If he wants to be mature and talk, fine, but try to move on, I wouldn’t waste my time on a guy that doesn’t have enough cojones to break up with me in person. Good luck.

**By the way, I think you broke the record, I’ve never seen a post this long! lol**

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On April 21st, 2010 at 5:19 pm, Philip O said:

I think it’s time to move and kick him to the curb girldfriend!

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On April 21st, 2010 at 5:37 pm, Brett D said:

HOW DO YOU KNOW SOMEONE ELSE DID NOT GET HIS PHONE AND TEXT YOU. YOU WON’T KNOW UNTIL YOU ASK HIM. OR TALK TO HIM IN PERSON?????? and don’t worry you will find another guy . make sure the next guy you date doesn’t have a phone.