Lesbians: Dating for 4 months… what is it we are doing?
All right. . 22 F San Diego, CA dated 25 F San Diego, CA. Den met in a bar and grill room. I was lost, and fell on me. I gave him my phone number and said it was not me when you're lost. We talked a while and I see that it was an interesting person and his love was together.We sushi for the first meeting following the first meeting at the bar. Then we went to a different local bar soft and I'm lost and remained in place. . . no sex, huddled tout.A started talking by phone and video chat, text. Go on dates. She is distressed to stay at home and could not sleep, his mind was noix.Je BC stayed with her when we went to drink if the house you wouldnt drive (45 minutes from downtown). No sex for the first 3 mois.ne not work, I said from the beginning, he wants a relationship but us being together or each type to be others. However, she said she had feelings for me and did not know what faisions.Après 3 months to snuggle up together and know all the movements of every day. . . She is a strong word about the things he saw go to the next level (mind you, before they slept together.) And we must maintain the high level of communication as before, since they are not advancing. That night we met for drinks at the local place we met. Both drunk and went home and slept together. The following days have been good until a few days later. . . strange and said I could not say otherwise, we will not loin.Nous have therefore put distance between us and speaks to the light and not seen for a week. After a week, we met in the local pool to sunbathe and hang out. He had a few drinks and was intoxicated. She seemed lost and leaning over me saying he was sorry and they really want. It even says he loves me, shook me all British Columbia was drunk, but I'm sorry. She said she was serious British Columbia when he saw me wash out. I havent put in place that you want from BC do not want to maintain a state of intoxication I LOVE YOU. I had to take her home, she wouldnt BC stop jumping on me and PDA is not allowed the family pool. Then we went home and heures.La bad for next week has been incredible, happy couple. Then the weekend rolled around and she went downtown with friends and got away with it. I needed to go home, so I got up and went home to sleep and I took her to his car the next morning, we had a coffee before she had to go to work 8am Saturday was matin.Le well until I said he was in a boat and drink champagne. . . It was very short and end.Enfin distance for the weekend, said he was sorry for being short, was a strange weekend weekend and I felt as if they were together and she took care of me. Or maintain this high level of communication at the scene said he did not want pas.Elle is desolate and not in the mood to talk about anything. It has nothing definitive to say and you need a break and space. What do I do. I worry about her well and she is a good person, does not seem to want to know what you want or are afraid to move. I need advice. My friends tell me to play. . . I do not think it would be. She is very sweet, but the nuts when he's drunk, perhaps the fault of the weekend? She had some anxiety problems in the past and Xanax (not make people I feel numb). It has only been with another girl, who dated 4 years, the youngest daughter joined the army and returned essentially in love and married someone else. I am sensitive to their past and can see that sometimes difficult to express accurately. I think I'm too good and sweet and the confidence, hope. She was honest and tried to break in the past, just always end up spending much time and energy in others. I need to have an understanding. It is simply in a bad mood and says he needs space here and there. Treat me like a walk on the side sometimes. I am her only when she discovers a hot girl / girl right in the club and wants to be able to do what you want without guilt.
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Break it off. She is far too immature for a serious relationship. She sounds like she’s an alcoholic and has serious emotional issues. She may be drinking to deal with emotional pain. She’s not treating you well at all, and seems to think that an apology is all it takes to make everything OK again. “High maintenance” doesn’t even begin to cover it.
Edit: correction. When someone says “I need a break and space”, they just broke up with *you*.
Sounds like a roller-coaster…you can only ride for so long before you get sick of it! Cut her off and move on. Doesn’t sound like a healthy relationship for you. BTW, that weekend on the boat. Sounds like something shady was going on.
Yep….you got played. She used you until she got what she wanted. She may not even be aware how this effects other people, as it has most likely become a habit & a way that she lives her life.
She is an abuser & you were an unknowing person who was new to the scene. Been there myself & it left me wanting to hurt back…so I opted out of the gay scene due to the many abusive women I met in bars that were far worse than the men I was attempting to run from.
Alcohol is a way for many people of abuse to continue to numb their pain & pass it on to others…unknowingly, of couse. She needs some serious counseling & you should get some too or you will end up in an ER room or a morgue once chicks like this use you for their sick club games.
My advice to you is to let it go & don’t frequent the club scene until you can find a healthy balance for yourself. Alcohol might be something you need to limit yourself on in a public setting, since it appears that it got you into the current mess that you are now stuck with.
Listen to those friends…they aren’t dumb. They might save your life….why not just hang with them instead? Unless, you want to end up with ice on your face after the nice drunk gets nuts & takes it out on you with her fists. I guarantee that it WILL happen. You might want to find a safer way to party while you are healing from this mental anguish…you need to learn how to swim before you jump into a raging river. This chick is that river!!! Stay out-Stay Alive.
I think she is playing you and she’s using the ‘i really do want you’ card as a way to keep you around. From what i’ve read she only starts being really affectionate when she starts drinking and the feeling only last shortly after (a few days) the drinking has stopped.
for it to be so short term (only being a few months together) you shouldnt be at a point where anyone needs space away from each other, you should definitely still be at a blissful stage.
have you met friends yet? family? do you know a whole lot about her? is she always drinking when you guys go out? secretive when on the phone?
these are all questions that can help lead you into a better understanding of whether or not she is looking for you to be a potential girlfriend
i honestly would back off of her because in the end i can see she’d really break your heart….she see’s you as an easy target.