How can you catch your husband on dating sites?

 

My husband erased the history on your computer every time you use. It became cold and decisive with me. He withdrew the money from several ATMs times a day. I found things I bought for better masturbation while computer and found him to come home when I'm not there to use. It allows text and phone calls. I know the cheats. I have no evidence solides.Est it possible to know if this is a dating site for adults if their history is still allowed? Frankie "Really? Ummm porn and toys? Yes, I'm pretty attractive, but do not wear lace underwear and airbrush me. You can not really compete with that.

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On September 7th, 2010 at 7:47 am, Frankie Beans said:

Damn! What makes masturbation better at the computer, that’s the real question here.

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On September 7th, 2010 at 8:41 am, Chad said:

You could get a keylogging program to see exactly what he types and where.

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On September 7th, 2010 at 9:31 am, knowing is BEST !!! said:

YES ,,purchase a keystroker !! Eblaster
Call the phone company and request thos reacord on the cell phone .good luck .and when you have all your proof smear his azz in court !!

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On September 7th, 2010 at 10:01 am, Mr. Brightside said:

Yeah just log into some of the sites that you suspect and do a search for his profile.. You can narrow it down by location and whatnot.

They also have programs you can buy where you can still tract history even after someone erases it.

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On September 7th, 2010 at 10:07 am, josette j said:

try to apply to a website using his email address thats how i found out my husband use to surf the sites when i tried to sign him up on one of the sites as a joke and he was already registered

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On September 7th, 2010 at 10:56 am, Annabella said:

I am not a fan of handing out advice on spying because I really believe it’s wrong. But if you’re sure & you just need to move on with your life . . . purchase a keylogger & install it on his computer when he’s not there. It will log every keystroke made. You can always find a way to get access to his phone bill. It will give you the call history but you won’t be able to get any text details.

Having said that . . . maybe he’s not cheating. Maybe he’s just looking at porn. If he was having sex with other women then why would he need masturbation tools for himself?

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On September 7th, 2010 at 11:00 am, Nikki said:

if he’s taking money out of the ATM and it’s both of ur money u need to get proof that he is taking it out. u should hire a PI to try to catch him cheating. Or you could always surprise him one day. Like park ur car on the next street over and walk to ur house without him seeing u u could catch him. I would consult a laywer if u think he’s cheating on to talk about divorce. No women should have to put up with this

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On September 7th, 2010 at 11:36 am, Jen B said:

poor thing. that sucks that you know he is cheating but have no evidence. i just got through dealing with something like this. i would do what a couple other people said, go to a couple websites, sometimes they let you have like a two week trial. get a pic from a friend that is sexy and see what happens, he may hit on ur profile not knowing it is you but make sure u delete the history too. to sleuth you have to become the scum you are investigating. i would say every guy has porn. i buy it for my man. but if hes buying toys, maybe toys not for himself and they are not for you. then u should leave. the fact that you are still there and you know he is cheating, you should leave.

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On September 7th, 2010 at 12:08 pm, Pooky said:

I don not know how you can draw the conclusion that he is cheating from the info you have given…it sounds more to me like he has a porn addiction challenge. You should get best attitude together and confront him in the kindest of ways don’t push for an answer just open the discussion and give him time and space to think about. If you come on to strong he won’t open up to you. You can do whatever you want its your marriage, you can be ME woman or a wife. The wife approach has a better chance of helping him and saving your marriage.

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On September 7th, 2010 at 1:03 pm, Ryan's Momma said:

Create a fake account. Then search for his criteria…
For example, in your search- put that you’re looking for a male within his age range, in the same zipcode you live in, with all of his stats, etc. If he’s on there then you’ll find him.

If you really want to get him good, post pictures on there and set up a meeting, won’t he be shocked when it’s you!!

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On September 7th, 2010 at 1:09 pm, dlwhit said:

Download this:

http://www1.k9webprotection.com/

It tracks all websites, even if cleared out of history. It also blocks websites too. No spam and works great!!

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On September 7th, 2010 at 1:15 pm, JCooper said:

Ok….you did not hear it from me.

Make up a fake e-mail add and get some picture of a hot chick from some site. Use paint. And goo from there, slowly, by flirting first. Do send him a picture yet untill when he asks. You will figure out the rest from there.

Boy, I can be a good COP!