Online dating: How to deal with shy girls?
A girl I met online gave me his phone number, but also in writing, she is very nervous about meeting people and is very shy and do not want to waste my time. And if I stop talking to her, she understood. . . . Why give me your number? "She wants to take things slow? Does not lead me to? Should I text her or call her or talk on the site meetings?
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Yes sure, why not?
Maybe she wants to get together with you.
Sounds crystal clear to me. Some people would rather talk online/text rather than in person/phone. She’s just shy. Just call her, but keep in mind that she probably won’t be talking much.
With this u dont wanna go to fast if shes shy cause i was shy when i had my ffirst boyfriend and he was going really fast and i didn’t want to deal with it. So what i’d do is just take things slow but still call and text but just not 24/7 unless she keeps replying and tell her tht shes not wasting ur time and talking to her is better then not talking at all so tell some sweet things but just lead her on then she’ll be able to open up more you know
hope i helped a tads !!
I think she has low confidence, and sometimes people who have low confidence say bad things about themselves and try to let the other person know it’s okay if they want to reject them. They don’t want to just be rejected or think a person doesn’t like them suddenly, so they openly admit, “Oh, it’s okay if you don’t like me,” and they need to keep their guard up. I can’t really explain it. They keep a mindset that the person will eventually be annoyed of them. Yeah, I can’t explain it still.
I think she is interested but like she said she’s shy. So maybe try texting her first and talk to her a bit then move into calling her and talking over the phone then meet her.. so get to know her first and move slow because she’s a shy girl and she’s an understand girl, so give her some time!
well since this an online experiment this is what I think because I’m a shy girl myself. maybe she gave you her number because you was a cool person and you build confident in her. when a shy girl say she want to take things slow, she actually saying no peer pressure understand her feelings. she don’t want you to think she one of them girls who willing to do anything to get your attention. you should call her first so she know that you interest in talking to her, but when you talk to her…Be confident!!! Talk to them (Girls get turned off or get the impression that you don’t like them if you don’t talk to them) Make a joke, it will break the ice. Shy girls probably won’t start talking right away. She probably won’t go talk to you; you need to be the one to start the conversation. After a while she will begin to start conversations with you. Don’t let the conversation die down! Do not ever, ever, insult her in any way. Also, do not ever ask her why she is so quiet/shy. There is no answer to that question, and the shy girl will feel uncomfortable. good luck