Ladies please, How long should a guy wait to text/call a girl after she gives you her number?
Ok, so I'll try this online dating anything. This girl sent me an email saying I loved my e-mail and thought it was funny. She said she was very busy and apologized for the late reply back to me so she gave me her number and said please call text and inviting me to coffee avenir.Ma question is when should I close? I wait a day and send a text fun loving. Here are some of my friends told me to do later today, otherwise, I do not like. Others say wait a few days not to seem too desperate / needy. What do you think? I just sent the girl two fois.Iam 23 years is 27
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wait 1-3 days then call her.
A day sounds about good
if she gave you her number, she wants you to text or call her. try and text her first. like…right now. and after a few texts, ask if she’s busy, if she says no, ask if you can call.
wait a day, shows you’re interested, but keeping her on her toes too
I’d say call her if you really like her, why wait.
id say 2 days
I’d say about a day.
I think wait a few days…if she really wntd to talk to u..then she wuldve said u can call me now?…but i agree that u shuld wait a few days to not look so desperate or to give her the feeling that u r rushing into this relationship…
well….some say not too long to make her think you don’t like her. others say not too soon to make her think you aren’t clingy. compromise and id go with the day later like you planned.
The next night or so. Girls like a chase so nothing immediate or she’ll get bored and find someone else.
This is important though, once you’ve got her. DON’T WAIT. Once you two are together, don’t worry about the”chase”
I agree. 1-3 days. Emailing back and forth some more is a good idea too.
id leave it a week.
You dont want to seem to desperate.
buh in that space she wil be exspecting one
from you and glad to hear of you by that time.
Good Luck (:
hahah wow only to messages and a number that’s a good sign..hmmm…maybe u should just wait a day..then call or text her girls dont like a guys text or calling then rite after they give thier number..well i dont lol…
text her now! Girls are flattered when they receive a call/text!
people are so naive. why do they continue with these ridiculous rules for dating. love has no boundaries okay. if she gave you her number she WANTS you to text her or call her
waiting a ‘few days’ is going to seem like you are uninterested first of all, and second there is nothing wrong with texting her now – you can just let her know hey this is _____ here’s my number, and if you get a response continue with the ‘flirty message’
you are thinking about this way too much for texting. my only suggestion don’t text her every waking minute or too much. i find texting impersonal, no one wants to text you their entire day when they can easily call you and do it. that’s what a phones for!!! texting isn’t the way to go about dating someone, call her!!
..i can’t believe all these people telling you to wait a week, a day three days. ridiculous~
i go for what your friends say because then
that girl will think your not interested.
Don’t worry you won’t look all that desperate you Will just
seem interested in her many girls like that.
a day or two…if i get a girl’s number on a friday…i will usually give her a call on a sunday afternoon/evening
Call her now. You don’t know her until you talk to her and she might not be interesting after you talk to her. Why waste a day?
Not a girl but I can answer this. I agree with your female friend. The three day rule pertains to the first in-person date. There is no time rule with texting/emailing other than you need to not do it too much. In other words, if she emails or texts you, you’re pretty good to answer whenever but do take care that over time you don’t seem like you’re available all the time (and you shouldn’t be — if you are, you need a life).
As far as the in-person meeting… if it goes super well, wait 2-3 days before contacting her. If she contacts you, fine. But give her room to breath and to process. Whatever you do, don’t come across as needy.
Stupid games? Yes. But unfortunately they are necessary.
Wait like 2 days. It’ll keep her wondering, then when your finally do call she’ll be like *yayy* but yeah call, dont text if your doing this method =P if you text she’ll be like ugh jerk
just about a day. You dont wanna call/txt right away because it shows youre desperate. And you dont wanna wait too long or it shows youre not interested. Just one day. Itll keep the girl interested and also show that you like her.
good luck!
I’d say a few days or else you would seem totally desperate, so just act casual and call like you’ve just decided to be light about it.
wait till the next day.
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When i give a guy my number, im just waiting for them to call…..when they finally do (about a day later) im happy. so i would say about a day. over that the girl might say, well maybe he’s moved on.
Definetly 1 day.
If you text her today, than yeah, you might seem a little excited.
If you wait 2 or 3 days she’ll totally think you forgot all about her. Don’t listen to the people who say more than one day.
1 day is perfecto, good luck w/ the girl!
Do what your first instinct is, is it to call now or wait? That’s what you should do. BE YOURSELF>
If she gives your her number she wants you to call her as soon as you can. It’s obvious she wants to talk on the phone. Maybe she feeling you. And wants to get to know you a little better over the phone instead of through e-mails texting and so on.I’m a girl and i love it when i give guys my number and they call me as soon as they can it’s sweet.
2 to 3 days text her for a while
ask her out in a week or two after you guys have been texting
Don’t use the stupid 3 day rule… I hate it!!!! errrr…. when I give a guy my number I wait by my cell anxious to get a call and everytime my phone rings I jump up hoping it to be him… lol. I am just a looser I guess.. But I would just start out by texting and then ask her out… it doesn’t matter when… just ask her out.
all u hav 2 do is give her a call 3 days afta she must hav sent her number. dnt luk desperate!
Don’t contact her right away. Wait for as long as she waited to get back to you…otherwise, you will look overly eager. I’ve met a few guys online, and I can honestly say that desperation is one of the biggest turn-offs. You don’t want to look like you don’t have a life, or look like you’re obsessing over her. If her excuse was that she was too busy to respond to you right away, do and say the same thing. I think waiting a few days might be a little too long, though. Wait for a day and a half. Send her a text or email the following evening, and say that you worked late. That will look good.
I say go with your instinct. This is early in the game where you two are getting to know each other. If she doesn’t reply its probably not because of when you texted her but beacuse it was you who texted her. But i don’t think you have to worry about it since within two e-mails you have aleady secured the digits and and date. Don’t feel bad about texting her with the same. Now I’m not saying text a girl as soon as she give you her number. The 3 day rule is something stupid. everyone is different. you just have to go with the flow. take you time allow her to take her time and just go with it. See I say this like i’m a pro but if i was in your situation I’d be panicking to. Good luck man. be confident. and if things don’t work out with this one. remember there are plenty of fish in the sea.